this weekend was amazingly wonderful, and I’ve never felt so peaceful and happy before. it was definitely nice to have all of my worries and anxiousness about the wedding go away. now I just have to wait for the rest of the week to go away!

hopefully this coming weekend will be a million times better, regardless of what little details may go wrong.

ah, it’s good to be back in california! very good indeed!


we are now at the 2-week mark!

today we went to buy temple clothes since the sacramento temple doesn’t have rentals. I know that everything will make much more sense once I actually go through, but they asked me so many questions about did I prefer A or B and all I heard was “do you like foisjfoidaghr or ofsjoruea?” since neither of the two registered as something I understood, it was kind of hard to know which I would really like better. but they were really helpful and gave me big discounts and said I can exchange them later if I want to. and while we were there I bought a 70-cent ctr ring just for kicks.

this morning, bright and early, was my first final. let me just say that geography is not my strong point. I won’t embarrass myself by giving any specific examples, but I’m really, really off on my idea of where certain countries are. that being said, I was so caught up in studying the lecture material for this final that I neglected to spend much time reviewing the globe. this proved to be a big mistake. everything I had learned for the last test went completely out of my mind. ukraine? venezuela? thailand? no idea. well, of course I had a fairly good general idea: ukraine is in eastern europe, venezuela is in south america, and thailand is in southeast asia. but beyond that, it was all guesswork. hopefully I did well enough on the other parts of the test to make up for my ridiculous map-labeling. and at least that class is over now. one less thing to worry about!

now I can just pretend that my other 2 finals will go splendidly, I’ll get all of my packing and cleaning done with time to spare, all the remaining wedding plans will go smoothly, and cinco de mayo will be perfect. easy enough!

trendwest? we think not.

monday evening, as we were sitting on my couch studiously doing our homework (that time we really were!), I got a phone call from trendwest. they’re a resort chain that does a combination of timeshare and ownership. apparently at one of the many bridal websites I looked at, I entered a sweepstakes, sponsored by trendwest, and they said I won. it was a 3-day 2-night airfare-paid trip to anaheim, reno, or las vegas. we would have to drive up to ogden to listen to their marketing scheme, but they said they’d give us a $20 gas card for our trouble.

so tonight we headed up. the presentation was supposed to be at 8, and it turns out to be in eden, not ogden, which took a little less than 2 hours to get to. we were a little early, so a guy named cody or cory or cole gave us a tour of one of the condos. everything he said was planned, I think, and he was really annoying. throughout the evening he would ask us what was a fun date we went on or a trip we remembered going on with our families, and then he’d tell a personal story. at the end of the story he would say some variation of “I liked it because it was spontaneous and memorable.” hmm.

anyway, we sat through their why-you-should-buy presentation and watched the video, and then we and the other 5 or 6 couples went back to our respective tour guides. someone in charge announced that there was going to be a contest. each couple would be given a piece of paper with spots to write the names, phone numbers, and email addresses of 15 friends, and whichever couple wrote down the most names by the end of “mambo #5” would win a $50 tgi friday’s gift card. also, every name would count as an entry for a free $1500 gas card; if all 15 slots were filled, that would be an additional $50 dinner gift card.

I flatly refused to fill it out. jarom was maybe a little embarrased, and I suppose it was kind of rude to our tour guide. but I couldn’t in good conscience write down my friends and family to be harrassed by these people, or bribed into driving up to eden for the same experience we were having. besides, I have very strong opinions about timeshares and resorts and so on. trendwest’s big persuasion point is that everyone should be able to spend more time with their families doing what they like, and that everyone deserves more vacations. I think, however, that there are much better ways to spend my money than on myself. obviously this is not a completely ingrained belief, because I drove 2 hours to get a free vacation. but nevertheless, I believe that not only should our money be spent on other things — like making the world a better place — but family vacations don’t have to be extravagant or destination-oriented.

so cory or cody or cole was visibly disappointed that I didn’t fill out any names. at the end of the song, he started chatting with us again, asking about school and work some more. he kept pressing the point with jarom about if he was using his korean skills in his job, until finally jarom said that he had scholarships and was just focusing on school for now. I explained that we’re going to have summer jobs after we get back from our wedding and honeymoon. at this point, the tour guide said he needed to talk to his manager about something.

and guess what? he came back and told us that because we don’t make over $32k a year, we were ineligible for the sweepstakes prize. (I know very well we don’t make that much, and I would never have said we did on any sort of entry form.) not only that, when we asked about the gas card, he said that it was in conjunction with the recommend-a-friend paper we didn’t fill out.

he did offer, though, to hold onto the prize for us for when we will be making enough money. but he didn’t want to show us all the cool ownership packages right now, because that would be like showing someone a cadillac, and they say “ooooh I want that!” but they can’t afford it. cory or cody or cole didn’t want to break our hearts, because everyone that sees the packages wants to be part of it.

so…we left. what else were we supposed to do? jarom was furious. never mind the sweepstakes prize, we had been promised a $20 gas card for our trouble, and that got taken away too. I tried to stick it to the man by not filling out that paper but the man screwed us over. altogether it was 5 hours and over 200 miles for…um…nothing. I’ve rarely seen jarom so riled up. he vows to email trendwest tomorrow and let them know that even if we have $5 billion dollars, we’ll never ever ever participate in their programs or stay at any of their affiliated resorts.

and so we have agreed that if we ever get talked into sitting through another marketing scheme like this, we won’t go outside of the city we live in. it’s not worth it.

the good news is, yesterday we went shopping for new church clothes for jarom, and I found the cutest dress I’ve ever seen. maybe the wedding dress is better. I’m still undecided. but I’ll wear it to the temple on our wedding day and to the luncheon and whatnot. barely 2 weeks away! we drive back to california next thursday. how will I ever get things done before then?!

jarom is cool #2

I love jarom because…last time I was sick, he brought over a book of korean poetry, because he remembered that I said korean sounds relaxing. he read to me until I fell asleep.

the un-interview

for my english class this semester, one of our assignments was to write a letter of application and a resume for a specific position. I filled it out for a job I was actually interested in, at a document imaging company in orem. and I even sent the letter and resume to them; I had already called and spoken to their hiring director over the phone, and they called me back to schedule an interview.

so a little after 4pm today I headed up to orem; by 4:20 I realized that I had somehow mixed up east and west, and was heading the wrong way on center street. I quickly got turned around and proceeded to search desperately for the building. at 4:30 I called the company to clarify that I had the right address. turns out that although the address says their building is on center street, it is in a very remote cul-de-sac that kind of connects to center street. blast. I made it in by 4:35, feeling confident enough in my excellent qualifications for the job.

and then…no one seemed to know why I was there. I could hear a few guys talking to each other: “did you have an interview scheduled? no, I don’t remember ever telling her to come in…” of course doubts began to creep in at this point. one guy, chad, finally came out and explained that the interview had been set up by someone in their salt lake office. they put me on the phone with her. she was confused why I wasn’t in salt lake. well, probably because I had already explained that I was interested in a job in orem, and she never said anything about coming up to salt lake. for a brief second I held onto the hope that maybe their hiring was all done through the salt lake office…until she said that the positions available were all in salt lake. thank you, thank you, I have made it extremely clear that I only want to work in orem. of course, there are no positions open in the orem office. so I apologized for the inconvenience and headed back home.

it was, all in all, a frustrating interview…because I was so amazingly qualified for that job. sigh.

my detour on the way home didn’t help. I needed to get gifts for two bridal showers this week, one tonight and one on thursday, both girls from fairfield. I spent a good 40 minutes exploring bed bath & beyond before giving up on the gift I’d chosen for one girl. it was absolutely impossible to find. I went through another 3 gifts on her registry before I could actually find one. sales associates? nowhere to be found. at the end of all that, I got in a long long line to discover that the checkout system was down and wouldn’t let the cashiers ring anyone up. fifteen minutes in that line convinced me that the gifts just weren’t quite worth it today, and that maybe I’d be ok since both girls did not show up to my shower. I was tempted to sneak into petsmart right next door and buy a new water dragon to cheer myself up, but luckily time got the better of me and I hurried home to have deliciously crusted and grilled tilapia. mmm.

maybe the frustrating afternoon was worth it, because it was so nice to come back and have jarom cook such a yummy dinner.

in the end, though, life is good

yesterday we had our official easter dinner at jarom’s parents house. it was delicious…the ham from christmas, asparagus, roasted potatoes, artichoke, that brazilian drink, and deviled eggs. no, wait – since krista made them, they were stuffed eggs.

and it was tons of fun. I don’t think I’ve had so much fun in several weeks. ben, jarom, their dad and I had a conversation about social problems (I love talking about social problems), we had a good (though embarrasing) time over dessert (angel food cake with strawberries and whipped cream), jarom and I got all of his stuff cleaned out of the garage, and all in all I enjoyed myself so much that we stayed until after 10. it was definitely a great start to what promises to be a very stressful week.

one test today, and then finals start, for me, on saturday. luckily I only have 3. one will be hard (pl sc 170: intro to international relations), one challenging but amusing (soc 111: intro to sociology), and one rather easy, if a little writing-intensive (soc 112: current social problems). those will last until next tuesday, after which I will finish a million things on my to do list…including packing all of my stuff…and then head back to california! hooray!!!

note to self: don’t eat all the leftover ham at once next time. bleh, I feel sick.

bridal shower? not so much

kimberlee, who hosted the bridal shower, sent out 50 invitations. unfortunately, she didn’t send them out until late last week, and with finals coming up, I understand that a lot of people are busy with school. but…of the 10 people that came today, only 2 were not relatives or roommates. kind of disappointing. still, it was fun, and I had to stuff my mouth full of marshmallows. yuck.

so I was fairly let down, since it seemed like none of my friends even bothered to rsvp. after we finished cleaning up I went and cried to jarom for a long time, hung out with krista, and then went on a date with jarom to color me mine. i painted a scalloped bowl and jarom painted a soup-mug sort of thing. it made me feel much better to be productive and creative.

and, after all, it’s only 3 weeks until the big day!