Light

I was talking to Jarom recently about how “meh” I’ve been feeling. The meh-ness has been here a lot longer than usual, and in the midst of our conversation I realized that I feel this way whenever the weather is overcast and grey for a prolonged period of time.

Jarom suggested, as others have, that I get a light therapy box. Or whatever they’re called. Of course, I did nothing about it except agree that it was a good idea.

Until yesterday!

I finally ordered a light box on Amazon and, why not, paid an extra $4 so I could get it today. It started snowing around 5pm yesterday and has only stopped once or twice, so hopefully this is a good chance to test the new gadget.

Have you ever tried anything like this? Or do you get through the winter with no problems? I’m jealous!

Aging

On Saturday, I took Evan to get a haircut. When he was much, much littler, I did his haircuts myself, but there came a point when he obviously needed more than one length of hair – and it was past my skill level to do. I talked to him a lot beforehand about how the barber would use the “bee” to cut his hair (Evan called clippers “the bee” because of the buzzing sound), and then we’d go get ice cream. That first time, he sat motionless and silent in the chair – which is pretty perfect for giving a toddler a haircut, I imagine. He was so nervous that he wouldn’t answer any questions or even look at the stylist. But, he survived, we got ice cream, and a tradition was born: a trip to the barber is always followed by ice cream.

So this past Saturday, we went to the grocery store after Evan’s haircut. I’d hoped that they’d have an ice cream counter, but it turned out to just be a little soft serve machine, and it was empty. I let Evan pick out a carton of ice cream (he went for plain chocolate, is this really my son?) and some waffle cones to take home. In the checkout, the cashier asked Evan how old he was. She joked that he was older than her, since she was only two. I asked Evan how old he thought she really was, since it’s always interesting to hear his guesses. Instead he asked her how old she was.

While we walked out to the car I tried explaining that in our culture, we don’t ask grownups how old they are. It isn’t considered a nice thing to do. You can ask kids how old they are; Evan is constantly being asked how old he is, so this makes sense to him. But I was coming up short with a reason for our anti-age-disclosure sentiment. I told him that in Korea, it’s important to know how old a person is, because you treat people differently if they’re older than you. In America, we never ask adults their age.

I thought about it on the drive home – is it part of our fear of aging? Is it some mystical sense that giving another person this piece of truth about ourselves will allow them some power over us? Is it a twisted form of modesty or humility? I’ve always assumed it’s meant to avoid embarrassment over being old, or being seen as old, which supports the “fear of aging” theory. Then, of course, I wonder why we’re so set on stopping the aging process, on remaining young and “whole” and all that. Personally, I think age is nothing to be ashamed of. Time goes by for all of us. Why is 20 better than 40? I’m glad to be done with 20, because so many wonderful things have happened in my life since then. I’m excited to be approaching 30. And by 40, I’ll have had years of a lovely marriage and of watching my kids grow up. Right now, I see no reason to be embarrassed by getting older.

But that’s just what I think. What about you?

Early

This morning, Jarom’s cousin got married in Bountiful. And by “this morning” I mean we had to get up at an ungodly hour to get there in time. Don’t get me wrong, it was totally worth it, but I am still (never will be) a morning person. Jarom can attest to my intense grouchiness while we were getting ready and driving up.

When the ceremony was over, we picked up the kids from my cousin’s house and headed back down to Springville. And Jarom, who is the best and most patient person in the world, offered to manage the kids while I took a looooooong nap.

Oh, by the way, do you live in Utah? It’s been ridiculously cold here lately. I’m glad if you live somewhere warmer, because when we got in the car this morning, it said it was 9°F. And our car usually reads about 5 degrees warmer than it really is. Jarom’s brother said it was -2°F when he left his house!

This is further evidence that no one should be up so early in the day.