Too Late the Phalarope
Posted: January 28, 2008 Filed under: Book of Sand Leave a commentHaving read Cry, the Beloved Country in high school, and having thoroughly enjoyed it, I always meant to get around to Paton’s other well-known work. This weekend I unpacked a box of books that was gathering dust in our apartment, and decided to read for a while before I went to bed.
The book had a completely different feel from Cry, the Beloved Country, although the writing style was (obviously) similar. It has been likened to a modern-day Greek tragedy, with an admirable hero whose one weakness brings destruction not only on himself but upon his family; the narrator is his aunt, and selections from the hero’s own writing add depth to the story.
Although some readers assume that Too Late the Phalarope is about apartheid or Puritanical morals, I disagree. What I saw as the central theme of the book was the inability to let other people see weakness, even if they can help. The protagonist had countless opportunities to stop the destruction he knew would come — but each time his silence won. In a way it reminded me of people who suffer from depression and are unable to admit their need, are unable or unwilling to cry out.
If you’ve read Cry, the Beloved Country (and liked it), I definitely think you should give this book a try. The writing is captivating, the story compelling. However, Cry, the Beloved Country is in many ways a richer, more textured work that may be easier and more enjoyable for many people to read.
Ella Enchanted
Posted: January 25, 2008 Filed under: Romgi the Enigma 3 CommentsWhen I first bought my own copy of Ella Enchanted, the Romgi was on his mission in Korea. Our communication with each other was limited to writing letters. Although it was frustrating at times to not be able to talk with him in person, or even in real time by phone or instant messaging, I really think it did us good to have delayed communication. It meant that each letter was thoughtful, carefully worded, important.
Tonight I read Ella Enchanted again before bed. I love Char’s letters to Ella and the way she describes wanting to tell him jokes and send him recipes, to have him there as a friend. At the risk of sounding a little too sappy, I’d like to say how glad I am that the Romgi and I got to be such close friends by writing letters, and how wonderful it is to be married now.
Especially when I can’t sleep because the stereo in the other room is making weird noises that sound like a burglar in the house, and the Romgi loves me enough to get up in the middle of the night to turn it off. What a husband.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that you can combine all of the literary men I always thought would be wonderful husbands (Prince Char, Taran, Adaon), and they don’t compare to my real-life best friend.
I think that satisfies my monthly sappy post quota…
People are DUMB.
Posted: January 11, 2008 Filed under: War and Peace 1 CommentSuperultramega dumb. And most of them should probably be smacked upside the head, just once. Maybe twice. Then would they be less dumb?
Actually, I doubt it. People are always going to be dumb.
Stupid Friday. Blah.

